Manage Power Plays and Arguments in Relationships and Heal Them Pt 2

Welcome to the Pt 2 blog post about: Manage Power Plays and Arguments in Relationships and Heal Them.

This Part 2 post is all about how Astrology can help us Identify and Heal our Behavioral, communication and Relationship Scripts:

You can also see the Part 1 video and blog post tells you about a fraught and powerful relationship conflict and powerplay energy that is arising late May to June 2023. Issues arising May/June 2023 are actually so crucial to know about and watch out for, understand and HEAL – in doing so we can open to love, find love, and become a Power Couple.

But this Part 2 Blog Post and video widens the information given in part 1.
It discusses the general theme of relationships, arguing in relationship and also the wonders of relationship astrology.

It tells you all about the astrological energies I cover in my Readings that can tell us all about our personalities and our love scripts and destined issues that are actually so crucial to know about and understand and HEAL.

Basically, I want to mention some of the key factors in your birth chart that can so help you understand your personality scripts/characteristics and also: highlighted because of the focus of this post: your relationship scripts.

Let’s look at a few key factors within your birth chart, then after that a couple of predictive astrology factors:

Here’s the Pt. 2 video:

I would start by mentioning the Nakshatras. Get a Reading from me where I identify which Nakshatras you have Ascendant or planets in. This will tell you so very, very much about your personality and relationship scripts. When I know your Ascendant, Moon and Sun Nakshatras I can tell you so much about the nature of your personality, and how to bring spiritual perception and understanding and healing to that.
Do see another post of mine which reveals that Western Astrology says of a couple, ‘your Moons are only a degree apart and in the same sign Western tropical zodiac Aries) so you will make a wonderful couple, whereas their Vedic Astrology reveals that their Moon are actually in two different signs: the man’s Moon in last degree of Vedic Sidereal zodiac Pisces; the woman’s Moon in the first degree of Vedic Sidereal Aries, and more than that: they have the vastness of one of the three Gandanta Zones between their Moons (Gandanta Zones are the three zones of immateriality and unsupportedness known to Vedic Astrology that it is so crucial to understand):
See the video about this key issue of western astrology ‘getting it wrong’ and Vedic astrology getting it right:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ibEMf-nnLA

And read the blog post about this issue:

Secondly, I would mention Chiron, your existential wound, awareness and healing of which can make you become the healer of others. It is so essential to know about Chiron in each of a couple’s charts. Because Vedic Astrology does not know about Chiron, Vedic Astrology can say to a man: Mars is your best planet, whereas as Western Astrology actually reveals he has Chiron conjunct his Mars and he has a script to heal of a devastatedly wounded (though in essence potentially strong) Mars!

Thirdly I would mention where Lilith is in your chart – such a ‘must know’ guide to your unconscious, to what’s stuffed down in your unconscious, in fact material there is largely directing your life, but you’re unconscious of it so can’t often work out why you do things. And Lilith is also our buried Wild Side, and we need to be in touch with our Wild Side if we are to become the fullness of who we are.

The second divisional chart of Vedic Astrology is called the D2 or Hora chart = value issues and gender issues and more.

I know of a case where a man was told from his Western Astrology that he had Lilith opposition his Venus, and Chiron conjunct his Mars. Vedic Astrology knew nothing of these two crucial facts.

BUT when the Man’s D2 chart was created, and the positions of Chiron and Lilith were added in to the Vedic charts, it was revealed that this man had four planets: Lilith and Venus, Chiron and Mars all in the same sign in his D2 Hora Chart, and in the sign ruled by Pitris deity = he has an ancestral curse to work with and heal!!!

I would most definitely also obviously  mention the Nodes of the Moon in your birth chart. These are the most central statement of your Destiny Direction in this incarnation. We each come in from Past Life where Ketu South Node is in our chart (as defined by House, Sign and planet aspects to Ketu) and as a Destiny Direction and Life Purpose, each of us is ‘thrown across the chart’ to where Rahu North Node is (always opposite): Rahu is the life qualities we need to move to in this life, but given Rahu’s driven nature we have to purify it if we are ever to get there.

I would definitely mention the wonderful Divisional Charts of Vedic Astrology, called the ‘Varga Charts’. Each Varga Chart says something totally specific and wonderful about a particular area of our life. For example: the D2 Hora Chart defines our Ancestral issues (including Ancestral curses) and our Gender Issues and value issues. The D9 Navamsha part defines our past life issues, our relationship issues in this life and our ideal Ashram (ideal way of living) in this life. The D60 chart defines the Karma we come in with in this life to work with, and the insights it gives are so needed, so eye-opening. The D30 chart defines our Creative Effort and sibling issues.

It’s so important to hear how your planets treat each other: your Rashi Avasthas. You need to know if Venus boosts and boosts your Saturn, but Saturn just trashes Venus totally in return.

Your Karakas are so important to understand. Karakas are Indicators.

Your Atmakaraka is your Soul Purpose key planet that you need to identify and get right.

Your Darakaraka shows who you are looking for in love and it is so important to know this.

Your Star energies are so very important to hear about. If a planet is conjunct a powerful star, this will massively affect the energy of that planet in your life, and how you manifest that planet’s energy. That star can be a blessing, or it can be a totally brutal resetting of the energy of your planet that this star is conjunct to.

I specialize in Western Psychodynamic Astrology. It’s crucial to combine both Vedic and also Western Astrology for the full needed declaration that you deserve. So the gems of Psychodynamic Western Astrology include the manifestation meaning of your chart aspect shapes, the location of the high points of each of the Houses in your chart, and much more. I offer you a wonderful statement of who you are in terms of are you the product of your Nature or your Nurture (the effects on you of your earliest upbringing environment).

Moving to your Predictive Astrology:

Your Vedic Predictive periods are crucial to know, including especially the start period in your life. This will say so much about what initially shaped you. And of course your current Dasha period is so important to know and understand.

Obviously you need to know and understand your present and upcoming Transits and progressed predictive periods.

Your Ashtakavarga score for each House in your chart is so important to know. It shows how protected/supported (or otherwise you are for each house in your birth chart that each planet will be transiting through.

As I said I specialize also deeply in psychodynamic western astrology. Predictive Psychodynamic western astrology has tow wonderful and accurate predictive age points: there the individuation Age Point (the unfoldment of our awareness of our psychological self) and the Nodal Age Point (the current whisper of our Soul to us from the Astral.

Obviously, as an example, I have mentioned only a few of the countless, countless gems on offer in one of my Readings.

You can get an Astrology Reading from me where I can give you the answers to all these and more – and if you wish, the Reading can of course be focused on your Relationship scripts as a person, or indeed, study of your actual Relationship charts.

I hope this ‘heads up’ as to the Astrology of Now, the nature of your relationship scripts, and also this brief resume of the wonders and gems of what I can tell you about your personality and life have all been helpful.

And I will be so glad to work with you,

Michael

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Manage Power Plays and Arguments in Relationships and Heal Them Pt 1

The Part 1 video tells you about a fraught and powerful relationship conflict and powerplay energy that is arising late May to June 2023. These issues that are arising are actually so crucial to know about and watch out for, understand and HEAL – in doing so we can open to love, find love, and become a Power Couple.

Also see my part 2 Video and Blog. But I am writing and videoing here a general post about understanding and managing rows, conflicts, arguments and power plays in relationship, and what to look for, for guidance in your birth charts. I offer some helpful quick pointers in Part 2.

But actually I start with Part 1, which is prompted by the Astrology of Now: This is the Astrology of the end of May and early June 2023.

The two current Astrological energies have especially promoted me to write this post now, at the end of May 2023, the two prompting energies, are as follows:


A Pluto opposition to Venus is gathering at this time.

and also

A Lilith square to an exact Mercury/Uranus conjunction is gathering now.

Let’s look at these, then go on to the Part 2 video and blog about how Astrology can help you identify your personality and relationship scripts.

Part 1: The Astrology of Now

So, as Part 1 of this post, let’s look first of all at the present astrology of the very end of May 2023, and how it will unfold into the first half of June 2023, and then I will go on to refer to the issue of scripts, arguments and power plays in relationships more generally: how Astrology can help you identify yours – and how the identification can bring awareness and help you to Healing.

So, first of all, speaking on 27th May 2023, note that there’s a real challenge to manage our communications and arguments in relationship now.

There’s a super-important call to grow to better understand and manage our relationship scripts.

And there’s such a profound call to understand and manage our innate power play issues.

So the present heart of the matter is TWO BIG planetary energy combinations that are gathering now:

1.

Pluto opposition Venus. Pluto is retrograde at 6 Vedic Capricorn now at the time of this video on May 27th, and the Pluto Venus opposition is exact by 4th June when Venus arrives at 5 Cancer.

2.

A Lilith square Mercury/Uranus aspect is developing now:

Lilith is square Mercury now (with Lilith at 21 Vedic Cancer and Mercury at 17 Vedic Aries), but by 4th June Lilith is square the newly formed Mercury/Uranus conjunction at 26 Aries.

But it’s also very important to note that there are thee big twists to this tale now, in May/June 2023:

Jupiter is conjunct Rahu North Node all this time in Aries:
Jupiter conjunct Rahu magnifies things (but also giving chances for insights to come).

secondly:


Ketu South Node is still transiting Libra the sign of Relationship:
This has been really forcing us to feel our Relationship Karmas and habits from past life and from the past in this life for a year now.

thirdly:


Saturn is stationary at 12 Vedic Aquarius all this time, turning Retrograde on 17th June at the start of 13 Aquarius:

Note that the slower a planet’s motion in the heavens, the deeper that planet carves its karmic energy into our consciousness and the events in our lives.

Saturn is now impelling us to tie up loose ends, to finish unfinished business now, and to fulfill the karmas that run in our particular life this time.

So if your have natal planets in Aquarius or Leo, or if you have Saturn aspecting your natal Venus or Mars or Mercury, you will find you have little choice but to feel Saturn’s imperative now in the areas of love, sex and relationship and communication – and hopefully grow to fulfill it, and hopefully let go of patterns you just should no longer live by.

OK, So, let’s get back to look somewhat deeper at the two main issues now:

Issue 1:
Pluto opposition Venus in the heavens:

The first thing to say is that this is very sexual. The sexual urge can become much more compelling, even frantic.

Pluto is opposition Venus by 4th June, but note that at the time of writing, on 27th May, Pluto is still opposition Mars (that opposition was exact on 21st May – steamy indeed!!!!! Pluto – Mars – Venus combination!

But the bigger dimension of Pluto opposition Venus is the use of POWER in relationship.

We will be offered lots of revelations as to the power issues that are going on between the two of us.

We mustn’t handle these in explosive couples’ warfare.

We must ‘break’ if conflict flares – then join again in loving sharing and awareness development.

We must recognize the scripts of each of us as to power plays and power-related repetitive habits, and ‘cast a skin’.

See my earlier post about becoming a Power Couple by casting negative skin after negative skin (like two snakes lying side by side, as it were, where snakes’ or ‘serpent energy’ has most anciently signified ‘death and rebirth’ (and magic happenings) see that post:
you can go to: https://lovestardating.com/key-recent-relationship-videos/

The post I’m talking about is the third one down the fascinating list:
Becoming a Power Couple in Relationship:
Pt. 1: https://youtu.be/eFxDa_4vrLA
Pt. 2: https://youtu.be/WqX-GR0RrPc

Leave behind the negative manifestations of Pluto energy, including those you grew up with. Realize instead that Pluto’s higher meaning is Descent to the Underworld, from which like Persephone, we can come into our fuller, proper power.

Issue 2:
Lilith square the Uranus/Mercury Conjunction:

Avoid ‘capping’ or ‘tantruming’ and failing to stand in proper power. Stay committed to strip yourselves of your negative scripts, and let the love shine and grow, now.

With Pluto opposition Venus upcoming and Chiron the Wounded Healer square Venus and Jupiter conjunct Rahu at the start of this period there will be revelations offered to the two of you.

And your communication scripts will be highlighted by the growing Lilith square Mercury/Uranus energy.

Lilith is all about material that is stuffed down into our unconscious and our shadow side, and Lilith includes our ‘buried wild side’ which must come out if you are to be full and whole, but obviously come out in an ethical, loving and aware way.

Agree to move away from the intense dramas, the threats and the tantrums.

Agree to identify and learn about your relationship-negative scripts. Bring the demons to the light and heal them mutually.

Agree to find the space to grow love. Leave behind any history you may have as to bad uses of the divine Mercury principle.

OK, please now go on to the Part 2 video and blog post all about: How Astrology can help us Identify and Heal our Behavioral, communication and Relationship Scripts:

Michael Conneely:

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You can see the Western and Vedic charts for this New Moon on my Starwheel Astrology website: https://starwheelastrology.com/march-2023/